Couldn’t overlook this one gents…
Gents, and ladies of course, how’s everyone holding up? Fantastic I hope and if not thinking positive is the name of the game. Okay so it’s been a minute since I last posted an article my bad life happened. Had a lot on my plate but am back and pumped with topics we can all relate to. For example this one….’HER’.
Gents I know you might be thinking “damn do you really have to go there…?”. Well let’s keep it real guys…we all have that one who maybe got away or better yet lucky to still have around. If you haven’t had one yet ..she is coming bro! Best be prepared coz things can go south quick.
Anyone will tell you one good girl is worth twenty whores…
Let’s face it gents we men are weak when it comes to temptations. Talking about a ‘pretty face big butt’ type of situation; or whatever your preferences are I don’t judge.. we have different tastes. So you are at a club or say a good outdoor house party with good company, a couple of beers and you feel good after a couple of them. You know having a good time. Then it so happens a pretty face big butt is looking your way and looks interested ..which might be a shock coz maybe it rarely happens (or never ) so you are even more excited and instincts kick in and you plan your next move as any normal guy would do.
So there are two conditions before you go for the kill. You either (a) Have the realest girl at your place waiting for you to come home coz she cares for you. That’s your girl right there so yes you are in a relationship.
Or you are b) Completely and very much single which I should advice, please by all means, advance effectively and immediately! All systems go haha .
If you were in the situation of the first guy.. what would be your next move? Trust me the first thought in your head will be her.. if you even care a bit about her that is. You will start second guessing because you don’t want to do her wrong yeah? But then again you turn to look at the gorgeous lady staring at you and it just ends up making the situation more difficult than it already is. The worst part would be if she made a move on you.. my advice would be to pray to God you are a stronger man than you think you are.
I am no love doctor gents.. not even close. But if such a situation was to occur you know what would have happened next coz I am assuming you are grown enough to be able to make decisions such as that. Simple right? Not quite.
All I can ask of you is to give that topic above a thought. That’s all. I know a couple of guys who if were given another chance to make it right would have said ” the devil is alive !” and walk away if they were in the situation of the first guy..
It’s not everyday someone comes and leaves an impression…
Really trying not to go there …that soft/emotional spot we all have but of course too proud to show it. With that said, if you have a real one with you.. , a good lady by your side who has always got your back and encourages, motivates and supports you ..do right by her side .She deserves it. If you don’t another guy will step up and gladly do that for you .
If it’s too late and you were caught (as most of us find ourselves..) or she got smarter and pulled out.. I could have said “I told you” but then again you did not find this blog post earlier.
But if you are reading this and it’s not too late for you…I think you are smart enough to know what the right thing to do is. Maybe this is a sign for you somehow you never know. The universe has its way of doing things that might surprise you.
Finally! I did not know how long I would survive having my defenses down like that. But real talk though, at some point gents we all get to experience her.. some short lived some growing each day.
If you are not the lucky one sorry bro. It can sting like a b****. What you can do is accept what you can’t change (if it’s too late to change things; if not give it one more try if you know she worth it), make peace with it and her (though they are quite bitter the first few months or so so I suggest keeping off until they have calmed down if you don’t want to be slapped or worse lol ), genuinely wish her the very best ( if you loved her enough ..you know she deserves the best), grow a huge pair of balls and move on…simple as that.
If she comes back to her senses and maybe just maybe takes you back. .she was supposed to be yours in the first place so don’t screw things up this time. If that’s not the case well … pick yourself up. When was the last time you travelled? Or just gone for a walk around the neighborhood ? Coz there are A LOT of beautiful single ladies out there…waiting for you. Besides…change is good for everybody :). Try it. CHEERS!